Your Buyers Aren't Negotiating Like You Did

Dated: July 23 2026

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The entire discussion has changed from "How much should we ask?" to "How do we get buyers through the front door?"

Many homeowners are surprised by today's buyers because they're remembering the market they purchased in. Twenty or thirty years ago, it was common to build negotiating room into the asking price. Sellers listed a little high, buyers offered a little low, and everyone expected to meet somewhere in the middle.

Today's buyers often think differently. They don't necessarily see your asking price as the beginning of a negotiation. They see it as the first test of value.

If your home appears significantly more expensive than similar homes, many buyers won't make a lower offer. They'll simply schedule a showing somewhere else.

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The Biggest Negotiation Happens Before the Showing

One of the most common questions we hear from sellers whose homes have been on the market for a while is: "Why didn't anyone just make an offer?"

Because buyers have to become interested before they become negotiators.

If they never walk through the front door, they never picture themselves living there. If they never picture themselves living there, there is nothing to negotiate.

Today's buyers have more information than ever before. Within minutes, they can compare your home with dozens of similar properties, review photos, estimate monthly payments, and decide which homes are worth seeing. If your home isn't positioned where buyers expect it to be, they often don't try to negotiate. They simply move on.

Price Doesn't Create Value. Buyers Do.

Many sellers believe that starting high leaves room to negotiate. Sometimes it simply leaves room for buyers to fall in love with another home.

We've seen well-priced homes attract multiple offers and ultimately sell above the asking price because buyers competed with one another. We've also seen homes linger on the market because they were priced based on yesterday's negotiating strategy instead of today's buying behavior.

The goal isn't to leave room for negotiation. The goal is to create enough interest that buyers want to compete. Those are two very different strategies.

Understanding Today's Market

Every market teaches buyers and sellers different habits. Success comes from understanding today's market, not yesterday's. Pricing isn't about convincing buyers your home is worth more. It's about positioning your home where the greatest number of qualified buyers recognize its value.

Because in today's market, the biggest negotiation often happens before the first offer is ever written.

Pricing questions? Please reach out!

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Diane Guercio

Buying or selling a home can feel overwhelming. My job is to make sure it doesn't have to. I work behind the scenes on nearly every transaction at REMAX Liberty, helping coordinate marketing, paperwo....

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